Set rack at lowest position in oven and preheat to 350°F. Boil Cognac in a pot until reduced to 1/2 cup, about 1 1/2 minutes. Cool.
Melt butter in heavy mediumskilletover medium heat. Add onion and sauté until soft and translucent but not brown, about 8 minutes.
Combine ground pork and 13 slices of chopped bacon in largebowl. Using fork or fingertips, mix together until well blended.
Add sautéed onion, garlic, 2 1/2 teaspoons salt, thyme, allspice, and pepper to bowl with pork mixture and stir until incorporated. Add eggs, cream, and reduced Cognac. Stir until well blended.
Line 9x5x3-inch metalloaf panwith bacon slices, arranging 8 slices across width of pan and 3 slices on each short side of pan and overlapping pan on all sides. Using hands, lightly and evenly press half of meat mixture (about 3 1/4 cups) onto bottom of pan atop bacon slices. Arrange ham strips over in single layer. Top with remaining meat mixture.
Fold bacon slices over, covering pâté. Cover pan tightly with foil. Place pan in 13x9x2-inch metal baking pan and transfer to oven. Pour boiling water intobaking panto come halfway up sides of loaf pan. Bake pâté until athermometerinserted through foil into center registers 155°F, about 2 hours 15 minutes.
Remove loaf pan from baking pan and transfer to rimmedbaking sheet. Place heavy skillet or 2 to 3 heavy cans atop pâté to weigh down. Chill overnight. Do Ahead Can be made 4 days ahead.
Place loaf pan with pâté in larger pan of hot water for about 3 minutes. Invert pâté onto platter; discard fat from platter and wipe clean. Cut pâté crosswise into 1/2-inch slices.